The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to Create, to
Overcome, to Endure, to Transform, to Love, and to be Greater than our
own Suffering!!
Watch our family's journey called
A Mother's Quest.
Our Evan was a very active nine-year old boy. He loved school, but
preferred to be outside playing with friends, competing with his ice
hockey, water polo and swim teams, and hanging down at T-Street beach
here in San Clemente, California, his home. His sweet, bubbly and
loving personality was and still is appreciated by all who met and
continue to meet him through this website. On April 30, 2007, after
swim practice, he had a seizure. This lead to his diagnosis, the
following day, with ALD, adrenoleukodystrophy, a horrific genetic
metabolic disease. We immediately were told this disease would take his
life within the next 6-12 months, and it would be a horrendous end of
life to boot!! We were led to the University of Minnesota where Evan
was the first ALD boy to use a “new drug protocol” prior to his Bone
Marrow Transplant, which could not only save his life but change the
course of treatment for future boys diagnosed with ALD.
Evan, his 20 year old sister, Mary, and his Mom, Gina, headed to
Minneapolis where they planned to say for the next 100 plus days as
Evan went through treatment and recovery. While he ended up being
hospitalized for 138 days of the 145 days he was in Minnesota, we had a
room at the Ronald McDonald House down the street, which Mary, and
visiting family and friends, could call home. Evan only spent 5 days at
the Ronald, but it made a lasting impression on our son. Mark stayed
back in San Clemente, running his business, and caring for Derek (12)
and Alaina, Evan’s twin (9). They visited often in between school and
their sporting activities, and even in the midst of this tragedy, the
kids thrived. Derek swam the Alcatraz Ocean Swim in June, and competed
in the National Junior Olympics for swimming and water polo, where his
polo team won the National Championship in August. Alaina competed in
swimming and water polo events too, a runner at heart, qualified for
sectional Track JOs in July and the National Cross Country JOs this
past December. The family spent many hours traveling back and forth
from the Midwest to the West Coast, loving every moment they could
spend together as a family.
Evan’s transplant was considered a miracle, as not only did he have
100% from his two cord blood donors, but the new protocol allowed for
him to have less brain trauma and hence, better quality of life after
transplant. He battled unknown fevers and moderate to severe graft
verses host disease (GVHD), but he rallied. When we left the hospital
on day +43, August 8, Evan could walk and talk and was completely
cognative, something they had not seen in past ALD boys post
transplant. Although he had lost his ability to process sound and a
large portion of his sight, he was still a happy, vibrant boy who
seemed to have a chance of a full life ahead of him. Two days later he
was back in the hospital with a fever, which we eventually found out
was caused by the “adenovirus”. This virus, in combination with his
severely compromised immune system because of the BMT treatment,
eventually caused his demise on November 2, the day before his and his
twin sister Alaina’s 10th birthday.
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